I have finally set up a bluetooth connection between both laptops and my mobile, it's taken me ages because I couldn't find the USB Dongle thing and even when that was found I didn't have any of the software/drivers for it.
Still it's working now, I can't say I'm that impressed with it to be honest. It is handy not to have the mobile in line of sight when transferring files, but I had hoped for a bit more speed.
I've sent about 80mb to the phone so far, it's worked out OK so I shouldn't complain. I still think I need to get a card reader/writer for the MMC or get the data cable, we'll see.